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요약: 

우승은 관심과 감시를 불러일으키며, 이는 잠재적으로 자기 검열로 이어져 성장을 저해할 수 있습니다.
(Winning brings attention and scrutiny, potentially leading to self-censorship and hindering growth.)

주제: 

우승이 개인의 성장과 진정성에 미치는 영향과 그것이 가져오는 관심.

(The impact of winning and the attention it brings on personal growth and authenticity.)

요지:

승리와 감시를 받는다는 인식은 개인으로 하여금 자신의 진정한 모습을 숨기고 타인을 기쁘게 하기 위한 결정을 내리게 만들어 궁극적으로 성장과 성공을 저해할 수 있습니다.

(Winning and the awareness of being watched can cause individuals to hide their true selves and make decisions to please others, which may ultimately hinder growth and success.)

핵심 어휘

(1) Self-conscious: 자각하는 

(Winning turns on a self-conscious awareness that others are watching.)

(2) Under the radar: 주목받지 않게 

(It's a lot easier to move under the radar when no one knows you.)

(3) Observed: 관찰되다 

(You're suddenly aware that you're being observed.)

(4) Judged: 판단되다 

(You're being judged.)

(5) Flaws: 결점 

(You worry that others will discover your flaws and weaknesses.)

(6) Role model: 모범 

(You start hiding your true personality, so you can be a good role model.)

(7) Authenticity: 진실성 

(At the expense of being who you really are.)

(8) Pleasing: 만족시키다 

(Making decisions that please others instead of pleasing yourself.)

(9) Apologizing: 사과하다 

(When you start apologizing for who you are.)

(10) Permanently: 영구적으로 

(You stop growing and you stop winning. Permanently.)

내용 이해

(1) What happens when an individual starts winning and gaining attention? 

(개인이 승리하고 주목받기 시작하면 어떤 일이 발생합니까?)

(2) How does being observed and judged affect a person's behavior? 

(관찰되고 판단되는 것이 사람의 행동에 어떤 영향을 미치나요?)

(3) What might a person do to be seen as a good role model and citizen? 

(어떤 사람이 좋은 롤 모델과 시민으로 여겨지기 위해 무엇을 할 수 있나요?)

(4) How can trying to please others instead of oneself negatively impact personal growth? 

(다른 사람을 기쁘게 하려고 자신을 기쁘게 하지 않는 것이 어떻게 개인 성장에 부정적인 영향을 미칠 수 있습니까?)

(5) What is the outcome of apologizing for one's true personality? 

(진실한 성격에 대해 사과하는 결과는 무엇입니까?)

* Suggested Answers

(1) When an individual starts winning and gaining attention, they become more self-conscious and aware that they are being observed and judged.

(Reason: The text explains the change in awareness that comes with winning.)

(2) Being observed and judged may cause a person to hide their true personality, flaws, and weaknesses, and act differently to be seen as a good role model and citizen. 

(Reason: The text discusses how people may alter their behavior under scrutiny.)

(3) A person might hide their true personality, flaws, and weaknesses, and make decisions to please others to be seen as a good role model and citizen. 

(Reason: The text explains what people may do to maintain a positive image.)

(4) Trying to please others instead of oneself can negatively impact personal growth because it can lead to inauthenticity and making decisions that don't align with one's true values, ultimately hindering progress and success. 

(Reason: The text warns against pleasing others at the expense of one's own desires and authenticity.)

(5) The outcome of apologizing for one's true personality is that the person stops growing and stops winning, possibly permanently. 

(Reason: The text emphasizes the negative consequences of not embracing one's true self.)

주요 문장

(1) But as soon as you start to win, and others start to notice, you're suddenly aware that you're being observed. 

(This sentence illustrates the shift in awareness that occurs when an individual starts winning, emphasizing the newfound self-consciousness and the feeling of being watched and judged.)

(2) When you start apologizing for who you are, you stop growing and you stop winning. Permanently. 

(This sentence underlines the consequences of not embracing one's true self, showing the negative impact it can have on personal growth and success.)

The text discusses the potential negative impact of winning on personal growth and authenticity. As an individual starts winning and gaining attention, they become more self-conscious and aware that they are being observed and judged.

This can lead them to hide their true personality, flaws, and weaknesses, and make decisions to please others instead of themselves.

However, this inauthenticity and focus on pleasing others can hinder personal growth and success, as the individual may stop growing and winning, possibly permanently.

It emphasizes the importance of embracing one's true self and not apologizing for who they are in order to maintain personal growth and long-term success.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4lTbWQ8zD3w 

1. Watch This Video

2. Questions and Answers

Question 1: Why do some people have trouble knowing who they are?

• They may not know their worth or values.
• They can be influenced by others' opinions.
• Early experiences play a big role.

Question 2: How can relying on others' opinions affect us?

• We can be easily hurt by criticism.
• We may crave external praise too much.
• We might follow popular opinions instead of our own.

Question 3: How can someone learn to know who they are?

• Ideally, from being known and understood by someone else early in life.
• A parent or caregiver should be attentive, kind, and validating.

Question 4: How can things go wrong in early identity-building?

• Parents might give mixed messages or ignore the child's feelings.
• They might focus on themselves or other things, causing emotional neglect.

Question 5: What is the result of emotional neglect?

• A feeling of unreality and a lack of stable identity.

Question 6: How can someone improve their sense of identity later in life?

• Seek help from a wise and kind person, like a psychotherapist.
• Learn to study and validate their own feelings and wants.
• Trust themselves more than the crowd.

Question 7: What are the benefits of knowing and befriending ourselves?

• Less hunger for praise.
• Less worry about opposition.
• More original thinking and confidence.